Two individuals both bright in their presentation find the
luster of success by trampling on another’s grief. Both huddled, for want of a
better word, in the realm of a self-imposed totalitarian-styled narcissism
I came across them through their words and the words left me
wanting for air. From those words, one can see that both have no difficulty of
expression. Both find refuge in exploiting the right words for the intent in
their meaning. Both seem remarkably astute in their discipline of what they
wish for the reader to read. So when I read their words, it was an indictment
of their intent and purpose.
Mentioning a brave and open person like Lisa Adams whose
courage and bravery in fighting the tentacles of a wretched disease in the same
flow and context as resource consumption is a travesty,
Yes, this world has changed from the compassionate comforts
to the hard realities of fiscal constraints. We see time in terms of money. We
see life in terms of money. We see work in terms of money. In fact money seems
to govern every aspect of life. Money, it seems governs our lives, thoughts and
actions. This stark reality only comes to face its own sets of demons when
confronted with the likes of Lisa Adams @AdamsLisa who has led the charge in breast cancer advocacy since facing her illness and has inspired hundreds and thousands of others through her quest.
The “Hope” we have often heard about is the very essence of
everyone’s existence. It is the measure of our respect for life. It is the
measure of what we see as our future. This same hope is now being reduced to
metrics that measure money. Comforting someone in the throes of an illness with
euphemisms and sultry inconsequential words, all the while purposing the one
object foremost on the bureaucratic mind is a testimony of how far and how deep
we as a society have sunk.
And there are many like the Bill and Emma Kellers of the
world, who see the world through their own eyes of cost-repair in a
money-dominated minded society (here).
Forgetting in the process that there are hopes and dreams of individuals other
than their own, they cite personal stories to invoke emotions and passion in
the current vogue of “Made to Stick” mantra that everyone seems to aspire. They miss the forest for the trees!
Jody Schoger @Jodyms is a wonderful writer, a disciplined and gifted
advocate for patients, well-versed in the disease manifestation of breast
cancer who lays out clear examples of the many weaknesses in the Keller
arguments in her blog (here).which should be taken seriously.
My medical oncology training and years of experiential
reference has seen the world view change when observed through differing set of
lenses. What once was is no longer. What was considered prudent has gained notoriety.
What once we reveled now we revile. What once we took for compassion now we
take as misguided idiosyncrasy. “Change” seems to have taken a path oft-traveled. If medicine is not about, healing, comfort, curative intent, and education, then we are truly adrift as people.
True, the term "Hope" has different meaning to different people. But ultimately it morphs into the cortex of each of our own being. Respect for that "hope" is what makes us human.
Times do change, but human emotions remain the same. The
clock ticks and the second flies by, but history of that second should always
be considered. If the Kellers and their pontificating kin have their sway we will morph into
an even more intolerant society, where any weakness be it disability, infirmity
or illness will become a societal burden, a consummation devoutly to be rid and we know what happened with that way of
thinking.
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